Sports are a uniting feature in the modern world. They bring people together so they can cheer for their favorite teams while they witness acts of amazing skill and endurance. Yet, there are some ways that sports overlap with other areas of life. For example, sport and dating both feature competition and the desire to be the best version of yourself. By taking a closer look at what these two parts of life have in common, you can come to understand how people can approach both of these topics in the same fashion.

Most Common Things from Dating and Sports

Dating and sports have a lot in common. For one thing, they have the potential to be highly competitive. After all, sports have a single winner and only one person is usually dating another. Therefore, only the most skilled people get the ultimate prize. That being said, there are other similarities. For one thing, there are online forms of sports and dating, both of which have evolved to the point where they are also competitive. So, dating and sports are both online and even more competitive since anyone can participate. As you can see, it’s a small wonder that people enjoy dating and sports. They want people to know that they are the best option available to their potential mate!

How to be First Everywhere

Being first in the world of sports and in the world of dating is actually pretty similar. In both cases, you will want to make sure that you practice. You need to work on the skills that will help you succeed in sports just as you will need to practice the language and moves that will make you better at dating. Another thing is that experience plays a large role. The more times you have faced real competition, the better. It doesn’t even matter if you didn’t end up with the date you wanted or if you win every game. Experience is the best teacher. Another thing to remember is that being first requires a lot of patience and passion. You can’t expect to have dates handed to you, and you can’t expect to get a championship trophy to appear in your hands. There has to be consistent work and personal development for both of these things to happen, but if you put in the work, then you’ll find success.

Be a Sport, be Dating, be Online

From childhood, a person has a desire to be the first. They want to be noticed for being a skillful, unique, good-looking, and more. Every human improves his skills, develops endurance, and, in a word, he completely improves himself. All of this is an attempt at trying to be the best version of himself. Still, all people are inherently reckless, curious, and inquisitive. That is the foundation for the successful formation of person’s personality are sports and competitions. In order to be the first, to be better than someone, is an incentive for human. It all leaves an imprint in his personal life. people are looking for that same in life partner, the best among others, ideally suited to her or him. The “be first” mentality has to be cultivated in a person’s mind. Here you can satisfy your requests for personal privacy while also using the idea that everyone wants to be the first in everything to get what you desire. That can be a certain kind of person, a certain kind of relationship, or working to find someone that is going to push you to new heights. After all, the best relationships are companionate, when you find someone that is like you and who will inspire you to be better than you ever thought possible.  

As you can see, sports and dating both provide a person with the chance to be highly competitive. They have a desire to obtain something: a partner or a championship. They’ll do whatever they have to do in order to be considered “first” in the mind of their partner or in the eyes of society. With this new understanding of the two lifestyle and how they can interact, you’ll know why people strive to be first when it comes to both kinds of “competition” and why things can become so passionate.


David M. Higgins II, Publisher/Editor

David M. Higgins was born in Baltimore and grew up in Southern Maryland. He has had a passion for journalism since high school. After spending many years in the Hospitality Industry he began working in...